Becoming Engineer- or loosing talents:

A film came few years back - 3 idiots - people liked it ( in fact a lot- as the film earned liked anything) but how many of us has actually understood the message on it.

I think if I am not wrong the message was that every child or human has their own talents and they all should be given the chance to explore their own talents rather than running for some thing their parents want and they don't .. I have heard many times people saying that what if Sachin Tendulkar was asked to become an Engineer..He would have never known in this world ...He wouldn't be able to show his talent in the form of cricket to this world.


I don't understand the concept of "Naukri" - beta padh lo acchi Naukri lagegi---1st, there is nothing in our courses that helps in our Jobs..
Our courses are not that practical... they are more theoretical .They helps us more in understanding how many war happened which will even not help us in becoming some

good  Yodhha..I am not against study but I am focusing more on advancing our courses which helps us in understanding more about experimenting our future life rather than reading some  past stories and Even if stories has to be their than it should be helpful in making our own successful stories.


Life teaches everyone their own philosophies, their own rules , their own desires ,their own footsteps and everything but there are many parents against those desires who will enforce their kids to follow "their desires" and that to following their footsteps.-"Mein apne bacche ko Engineer banana chahta hun"- Why ? "Are meri sister ka beta bhi Engineer hai aur bahot kamata hai...Is money everything..Yes off-course Money is everything because my son have studied to do a Naukri and I have invested on him so he has to take care of my nose and make him earn better than my sister's son ... after-all there is high competition between relatives :)


The competition sucks the life of son - he took admission in Eng college ..got placed after 4 years -and now sitting in some company thinking that what he has done to his life.

Chalo ye to Engineering thi jo - can be managed by studying one day before Exams even if not interested but there are cases where kids are forced to do medicals which is not that Easy and students in-spite of challenging their parents expectations ..End up challenging their breaths.

The question is why not In India - kids are allowed to live their life with their own taste .
The answer is not that simple - as India is densely populated and there is run for everything ..Even If I have talent I wont be recognized and the fear of that forces every parent to choose something safer for their kids..

When A kid is admitted to school they know just books - they do-not know sports, they do not know music, painting crafts or anything else.. they just know books,,  and after few years when they realize that they have some other interest they have to start that interest with zero..
and that is A risk and question Mark on the kids future.. so a kid is never  allowed to follow their interest but they are forced to follow some simple Naukri Funda.

So if we push it back - our Education System needs to be more advanced so that a kid can explore their interest in their Early lives and can write their own successful stories instead of just thinking about Sachin Tendulkar story.

I believe ,We in India have many talents which needs to be crawled out of the box and in result can generate more jobs , more aspirations , more confidence and less dependability on some MNCs .


Taare zameen par-
Every kid is a star -and has their own shine let them shine with their own talents , with their own spark and than you can see India Shining with different colors and
than you can say that we are free and independent because  today we are still dependent and will continue to be dependent unless we don't realize our own values and
our talents.

These MNCs big multies will continue sucking the life of every alternate individual..with giving in re-turn some bugs.

We will End up living in "STILL DEVELOPING" nation with some Un-fulfilled desires..and will disappear with hidden talents that could be known someday and could have given some Meaning to the LIFE.

Facebook a social website-

The question is - whether its increasing the warmth among us - friends or decreasing the actualization of people.
The era wherein we are living should be called the era of less time but more time pass,...
Yes ... we all know that we have time , but don't want to realize it or want to show them to others.. say Yes.

I rarely post something on my wall, its not that I don't have anything on my mind or my is blank but its because I know that behind the walls
somebody without even knowing me or my mind will be laughing, people who know me , might post some likes or comment as cool or fab..or may dislike it.. or may do a

fake comment.


I am not comparing but I was just thinking that there were times where we gather to catch up with friends or  our families used to take us to their friends.. that was

social gathering ... where we force our parents to allow us to play more or to talk with other kids.. but today the kids are busy in playing games in internet.

I am not being emotional in writing all this but I am just curious to actually know that why... we dont want to meet more people or we don't want today any guest in

our house.

Technology is getting off course "Very Advance" ... we sit in front of internet and roam around the world.. we meet people in Facebook... we ready books in E books.
We play games in play store and we go office sit in front of computer and talk to that computer and come back... with some body aches.

Wow ......... my all day is done....

weekends we may go out with few good bodies or may just pass the whole day in front of this very good technology...say hi to few friends or write happy Sunday in the

walls or just will sleep watching some movie.,,

Weekends ...END.

Do you really think that doing all this you felt somethings= good,,or relaxed.
NO... as between  all these time time you were with your computer and no body else... nor with your friends neither your Family...For being Alive you need people

around with whom you can actually share your emotions , share your thoughts with feelings that can be felt across the mind in the same manner.

Because In internet you are fake.. your emotions are fake... you want to either Hide your self or want to praise your self...If you don't get praised you become sad and

that to a fake sad..

We are all born with affection , compassion and love .. and throughout our lives we search for the same because we are made up of all these... but actually we are

running away from these ...we are loosing people from our lives.... we are living a fake life .

This technology is making fool of us.. its not increasing the social network but its actually earning money on behalf of our emotions.
Posting the photo .. expecting people to like it... just want to be noticed in the walls of others is not life.. neither a social network.

Come on friends--- its not the time to sit behind the walls of computer .. come lets meet , talk , read across the minds by seeing each other not by some old good pics

but with actual Eyes .Lets not stop living .........lets be alive by grasping hand of each other with the Warmth of Love , compassion and affection.

I was born as beggar not as a child.

Not had a word to say when u choosen to make me a slave

Not had a choice when u just kicked me out of your door to be in front of millions of pains

me dont know what i did to you.....but u had shown me the hell with thirsty days 

with hungry stomach , burnt legs ,with no cloths,...

I was abused every day, scolded by almost every one ... people stare at me with anger even though I am child

Just becoz i was tought by you to go and beg for every thing as you haven't given me anything neither the potential to buy something on my own. 

There are millions of me around this world but we are not freinds becoz we fight every day to eat ,to breath, we dont have time to hold each others hand and roam around as we need to run over our lifes to be alive.

I dnt want to cry becoz nobody will hear that...neither want to scream at you becoz people will laugh not at me but at my impotence.

Dont want to say you anything but just want to sit and ask GOD what crime I did that you given me the confinement of life where I dont have my choice of being alive.

Move on

Life is moving on:

Not from your responsbilities but from your pain 

Not from your actions but from you fails

Keep on moving ahead becoz your pains give u reasons to laugh again 

and your failures inspire to win again...

We call it as a life which is a game where U have to play again if you lost. 

If you win you will be able to see next stages

Every stage is more challening 

U should have a zeal to win, a craving to cross your own limits, a power to make your own paths.

A courage to overcome from your failures,An eye To visualize the opportunities..and take ur success ahead.

There are so many misteries which is there for you..hidden somewhere

May be good or bad but you have to cross it becoz its for you...You cannot compare,neither you complian.

Becoz the designer sits silent after he designs your life just to see how well you play.

How well you move on...every time with new a New passion,with a new Discipline..

 Its just on you how u make your own roads smooth ,smoother to Move on.........to slide on....or to fly on....